The conversation went in a lot of directions, these kinds of discussions typically do. At on point team leadership came up. I ran a drill with the guys that I do with T/L Classes. I had them tell me traits of a good leader. They started to fire off words, Integrity, Honor, Discipline, Dedication, Character, Courage, Communicator, Diplomat, Fair, and so forth. The list is always the same and I use this to illustrate that the concept of a good leader is universal. Be that guy, and you will be considered a good leader. Deviate in any one category and you may not be.

Here is a news flash for some of you young(er) studs. The list applies equally to you. If I was to name off traits of a good team member, the list is the same. Instead of pointing up, look in the mirror and ask yourself whether or not you are meeting the stringent requirements you demand of others. If you are not, fix yourself. Self reflection is required of everyone who takes up arms, who has the responsibility of defending others from harm, who have the sacred trust of others.
 
I am not perfect, I have made alot of mistakes over the years from the time I was a Sergeant in the Army until now. I have tried to learn from my mistakes. I have tried to be a model for others in the SWAT world. I have tried to remain self disciplined, forthright, and honest with team members, T/L’s and team command. I am not perfect, but goddamnit, the mistakes I have made are not from a lack of trying.

Run your own list, and then regardless of position, try to live up to your own high standard.